STUPID LOVE



i remember the hit song "stupid love" by salbacuta, a local rapper group who gazed every filipinos way back in 2002 with it's famous lyrics about a man loving a girl, who in the end fooled him, and made him a stupid guy for being so.

stupid love? it really do exists.. maybe some of us are not aware that we belong to those, being in a stupid love, or loving in stupidity. but what is the real gauge for that? is stupidity in love is closely proportional to martyr lovers? or the ones they call loving blindly?

is there really a measurement that can specifically and accurately distinguished a person whether he/she is already being stupid to love a certain person, or loving a person whom other's think he/she does'nt deserve? confusing, huh?!

anyway, each and everyone of us has our own style and threshhold when it comes to loving. some would think that they are just accepting the person for who they are, but cannot be called stupid. for some, they already know the "flaws, faults  and failures" of the person they are in to, but for some reasons, they choose not to give a damn about it. or they are just being " blindly aware" of all the unfaithfulness of their significant other.

but sometimes, it's just getting so wrong as time passes by.. that you can no longer respect even your own self, you tend to sacrifice your emotions and even your ego just to make your relationship work, and lasts.

if your in a relationship where, you're just being stabbed everyday by the hurts and pains that you get while staying, even you still love the person, sometimes you just need to let go.. you have to love yourself first to be able to love someone even better. respect yourself most, prove your worth to gain your strength.

life is not easy, specially when your not loving, and being stupid in love..

Comments

  1. RamnujDecember 10, 2009 at 10:34 PM

    Hmmm? Nice (",)

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  2. wengblanqueraDecember 10, 2009 at 11:03 PM

    thanks, ramnuj.. do you relate on this? (^,^) have a nice day!

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  3. MallseeryDecember 11, 2009 at 10:37 PM

    It looks like you are a real specialist. Did you study about the theme? *lol*

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  4. wengblanqueraDecember 11, 2009 at 10:55 PM

    haha.. lol! thanks, mallseery! i can't say that im a specialist when it comes to that matter. let's just say that i am "experienced".. thanks, again!

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