CATCHING THE CHEATERS

well, well, well.. cheaters are all around the corner.. they victimize a lot of people specially those who are closest to them.. their very own partners!

yes, indeed! both men and women cheats whether by choice or by chance. come on, we all flirt even sometimes, secretly . it's the nature of mankind.. a part of socialization and acquaintance. but sometimes, it becomes serious whenever we cross the line..

now what's that line? it is the limitation where we control ourselves to get intimately attached to the person that we were flirting to. common flirts are smiling to someone you just know, maybe in a bar or someone you dont even know, just because you find that person cute or attractive. like talking and having a conversation where both of you shares some personal information, like your name of course, your contact number, etc.

it really starts with a flirt. before we get intimate to someone, or get attached to someone, it must start with a flirt.. just flirt. but when you find the person to whom you flirted with a little interesting, you will get drawn and just find yourself hooked .

so, what are the signs to consider if your partner is doing some "sidelines" like having "another" person in his/her life? we just need to be like a dog, who can smell beyond our normal senses.

first, COMPARE. well for most of us, we must know the daily routine of our partner from the time we shared ourselves to them, basically the start of the relationship. if he is doing something new and unusual from what he's been doing since you've met, think. and start being vigilant. it can be a sign of cheating.


second, ASK. well, that's your right! ask questions.. where is he going, what will he be doing there, when will he comeback, things like that. it's not inappropriate to ask those questions. because if he's not cheating on you, he wont get annoyed by that.

third, ANALYZE. you dont need to be a scientist to be able to realize what is happening, right? follow your intuitions, most of the time it's right! it's a plus bonus to girls actually.. the "woman's intuition" thing. you need to remember or recall everything that he says, or he reasons to you whenever he's not around. because one day, you will need it in solving the puzzle.

fourth, SIMULATE. well, this is the hardest but tricky part of testing the waters! create a plan, do not overeact. you need to put him in a situation where he cannot deny if he is actually cheating on you. how? that's the thrill of the catch!

men are really liars.. hell yeah! but they have not perfected that skill. that's why they ended up being "caught in the act".. you just need to observe their gestures even the slightest one. this applies to women too, who also cheats on their partners. so, we just need to strengthen our senses..

enjoy the catch!